Blaming Others

Blaming Others

ABRAHAM: Let us interrupt before you go any further. The tendency is to blame the other for his imperfection.

We are wanting you to assume the responsibility for his imperfection as he interacts with you, for you are soliciting it from him. The tendency is to see a flaw in another and judge and blame the other, and what we are saying to you is – only what you see is there.

And so, now where are you? Now you are in a position where you may have perfect relationships with everyone as you are clear about what you are wanting and as you are only seeing what you are wanting. And when you see that which is not in harmony with who you are, look away. When your warning bell rings because that which you are seeing is not in harmony with what you are wanting, turn your attention to something else, you see.

What you are most wanting to understand in this life experience is this: It is the greatest intention that you have, and we speak it forcefully: You are wanting to be ALLOWERS. And you will know when you have achieved that when you are willing to allow another, even when the other does not allow you. When you are able to allow, even when the other is not allowing you — you will have absolute freedom.

You see, the only thing that binds you is negativity. Without it you are free, joyously. And so, as you look at another and see only that which brings forth joy — you are free. As you look at another and see that which brings forth negativity — you are bound by your own decision of what you are soliciting.

We are wanting you to release the responsibility from all those you are blaming for all of the things they are doing wrong and for all of the ways they are messing up your life. They are not doing it! You are doing it!

COMMENT: That is deep stuff. (Group laughter)

ABRAHAM: It is the deepest of the stuff. (Group laughter) And it is the most meaningful words that you will hear as you are moving forward, for you are interacting with others, and it applies not only to the others, my friends — it applies to your own being.

You solicit from your very own being that which you do not want to be. You look at yourself and you see that which is wrong. You see that which is not in harmony with your greater wanting, and as you do it — you create more.

See in yourselves that which you are wanting, and that is what you will draw forth. Do you see? Indeed you do. That is very good. Did you write it down? (To Jerry)

JERRY: I put, “Transcribe this. This is deep stuff.” (Group laughter)

— ~Abraham-Hicks A New Beginning I

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The “Prosperity Game”


The Prosperity Game

The Prosperity Game on Facebook

I am playing “The Prosperity Game” with friends on facebook. You can get to the group page by clicking on the image to the left. But I suggest that you read what Abraham has to say about in their wonderful book, Ask and it is Given, before you play the game. The following is verbatim from the book. (You should go out and buy the book!)

“This Prosperity Game will be of the most value to you when your Emotional Set-Point is ranging somewhere between: (1) Joy/Knowledge/Empowerment/Freedom/Love/Appreciationand (16) Discouragement.

“In this process, you will begin by establishing an imaginary checking account. In other words, there will be no actual bank involved, but you will make deposit entries and check withdrawals just as if it were an actual account.

“You could use an old checkbook system that is no longer in use, an accounting program in your computer, or you could even manufacture a complete system by using a notebook as your checkbook register and blank pieces of papers for your deposit slips and checks.

“It is of value to make this process feel as real to you as possible. On the first day, deposit $1,000. And spend it. In other words, make a S 1,000 deposit entry into your checkbook register, then write out checks to spend those dollars.

“You could spend your money all in one place, using one check, or you could spend it for several different things, using several different checks.

“The point of the game is to have fun thinking about what you would like to purchase, and to enjoy the process of actually writing out the checks.

“Be descriptive on the memo portion of the check. For example: For a beautiful writing pen or Great running shoes or Membership at Gordon’s Health Spa.

“You can spend it all today, or save some of it for another day. However, we encourage you to do your best to spend it today, because tomorrow you will be making another wonderful deposit.

“On the second day, deposit $2,000. On the third day, deposit $3,000. On the fourth day, deposit $4,000. When you reach day 50, deposit $50,000. When you reach day 300, deposit $300,000.

“If you play this game every day for one year, you will have deposited and spent more than $66 million.

“You will be benefiting by increasing your ability to imagine. In other words, you will discover, as you play the game for a few weeks, that it will begin to take real concentration to spend that much money. And so, your ability to imagine will expand tremendously.”

You Can Do Anything

Guest: I’d love to be able to physically move something without touching it. Is the process the same?

Abraham: It is. It is. But can you do that now?

Guest: No, not yet.

Abraham: So, how does it feel to not be able to do something you want to do?

Guest: Not terrible its just that I haven’t been able to figure it out yet.

Abraham: But, do you appreciate what is?

Guest: I think so. I don’t think I’m hung up on it.

Abraham: Think about what we’re saying though. Do you appreciate the fact that you can create through thought and things do take shape? Do you appreciate the fact that you can pick it up and move it from place to place? Do you appreciate the fact that it exists?

Do you appreciate the fact that you can move it from here to over here? Do you appreciate the fact that you live in a time-space reality where there is that relationship, that spatial relationship? Do you appreciate the spatial relationship that currently exists? Do you appreciate your ability to perceive as you currently do?

Guest: Maybe not quite to that extreme. (audience laughter)

Abraham: When you appreciate your current spatial relationship then you can evolve to an improved spatial relationship to your liking. But as long as you are saying: I want to perform that and it is magic. And the reason I call it magic (those are the words that we are applying), the reason I am calling it something abnormal is because it’s a different perspective of a spatial relationship. And we say: You can’t have an improved spatial relationship without feeling INTENSE appreciation for the current spatial relationship that you have.

(Abraham picks up a book and handles it.) So as you handle things, as you perceive them, as you adore them, as you let the feeling of your body interpret them. As you close your eyes and feel what they are you can identify something by its feel without even seeing it can’t you? And when you see it – oh! What an improvement in that spatial relationship! When you hear it (Abe flips the pages of the book for sound). Taste it (Abe licks the book and audience laughs). Smell it. In other words, this is a tactile thing that you are interpreting through your physical senses. So how expansive can your physical senses be?

And what we are saying to you is: Your physical senses cannot evolve to something beyond what is – without an intense appreciation of what they now are. And there is enough lack in that desire to do something you can’t do, to keep you from ever doing it.

So you’ve got to give up that feeling of lack. You can’t feel lackful about the lover and you can’t feel lackful about the house and you can’t feel lackful about not being able to physically move something from place to place. And when you get over that you can do anything.

Guest: I feel like I have just internalized that so much thank you.

From the workshop in San Francisco, CA on 7/28/07

“By what authority do you ask for things to come to you?”

We want to say to all of you: “How is it that you justify your existence?” Or better said:

“By what authority do you ask for things to come to you?”

As Esther called on the telephone this morning and asked for some ice, we say to her: “And by what authority do you make this request?”

“Well, I am the person in the Penthouse” Esther said. (Laughter) “…by that authority…or I am a person on the cruse ship, and by that authority”

And we said… the answer that we want to hear from everyone, if they hear the question:

“By what authority do you ask questions or do you ask service, or do you ask for the improvement or do you ask for anything?”

We want your answer to be:

“By the authority that I am the Center of the Universe, by the authority that I am Source Energy and that All That Is seeks to answer the request that I offer”.

In other words, we don’t want timidness from you. We don’t want humility from you and we don’t want servitude from you. We want an understanding of your power and an unequivocal expectation of resources to flow to you. And from that knowledge..oh! you serve the world in a powerful way.

That is what you planned.

That, sir, is your destiny.

Hawaiin Cruise 2005

Leap Into the Vortex

 

We think it’s time for anyone who wants to be the powerful creator that you were born to be, to stop justifying what you want by exploring what is at all. We think its time for you to make the leap into the vortex, and leave what you have known as reality behind. And when you leave what you have known as reality behind you’ll begin living real-time in this vortex.

We are not asking you to croak today, that’s not what we are asking. We are not asking you to take a complete departure from everything that you know. What we are asking you to do is to accept the vibrational nature of your being and to let the way you feel be the only thing that really matters to you, we are asking you to care about how you feel because that’s the only way that you will know, at all, your proximity to your vortex. We’re asking you to no longer ask anyone else to behave any differently in order to affect your emotion, we are asking you to accept that you are in complete control about how you feel because you have the ability to focus. We are asking you to stop beating up on yourself or others.

We’re asking you, WE’RE ASKING YOU……………. We’re asking you to turnoff your televisions for 30 days. Turn off your televisions for 30 days – (we can feel the pains of withdrawal all around the room.)

Turn off your television for 30 days, cancel your meetings with other people, withdraw from the reality in every way you can. (Now you have to decide what you can and cannot do but withdraw from as much of your reality as you can for 30 days.) And explore the recesses and the resources of our vortex.

Fire up the passion of your imagination. Buy a note-book and call it your Book of Positive Aspects, and write in it as much as you have time for. And tune your self in these small efforts to the vibration of who you really are.

And on about day three or four inspiration to act in new ways will begin to occur to you. And as the inspiration occurs, follow through with it, if you can, in the moment that you think of it. Make the phone call, move in the direction of it, feel the pull of it. Its like source taking you by the hand and saying “you have been mentioning this for quite a long while and I want to show you where it is; you have been mentioning that for quite a long while and I want to show you where it is”.

And then document in your note-book the evidence of things that you have wanted for a while that are now, vivid enough that you are seeing them in your mind’s eye; seeing them in the environment around you. Seeing the evidence of them, but even more than seeing it or hearing it or smelling it or tasting it or touching it; feeling the vividness of it.

If someone says to you “you seem different; what’s going on with you?” tell them, “I am withdrawing from reality,” and before they muster too much alarm, say to them, “But don’t worry I am focusing into my vibrational reality which really is present tense.” As they say, “well you do seem happier” say to them “everything that I want and everything that I am is in this vortex where I am now focusing and I have discovered that I am addicted to this expanded version of me and that I cannot go back.”

Then say to them, “I tried to go back for quite a while; I didn’t really know about the existence of this vortex and I was clinging to reality, but it was tearing me apart, and so I let go of reality and I began thinking in terms of vibrational reality and now, there is no stress in my body, now there is no pain in my body, now there is no anger in my heart, now there’s no tension in my being, now there’s no resistance around me, and now I’m floating free in this vortex of co-operative components where all kinds of remarkable things are presenting themselves to me in just perfect timing.

“Its like the entire universe has been established just to support me,” and your friend will walk away scratching his head, probably, but when you reach that place that you are ready to announce to any one who you see that you have freed yourself from the clinging to “this mornings eggs.” And that you area now floating free in the expectation of all things as you have most wanted them to be.

“The body weight that I choose, the clarity that I seek, the friendships that I adore, the relationships with my children and my parents, and my siblings and my friends that I have long been seeking. A feeling of patriotism about this nation in which I so proudly live, a feeling of exhilaration and appreciation about this planet that spins in its orbit, and all that came before I got here in order to add support to that which I am.

“Appreciation for the infrastructure of my world; the economic infrastructure and the engineering infrastructure, the infrastructure that moves the food around, the infrastructure that moves the goods around.

“The appreciation that I feel for those who are trucking things from place to place and those that are repairing the roads to make it possible that it moves; the people that have the ideas and the people that have the businesses; my appreciation for the big businesses that are at the heart of so much commerce that is serving so many of us, my appreciation for the big government that is at the heart of so much of the structure that makes it possible for us to move in the organized way that we do; my appreciation for the people who build the houses and the people who cook the food.

“My appreciation for all of that is just running rampant as I stand inside the vortex and realize that this reality that I am now observing in a slighter fashion has always and only ever been the bouncing off place for that which I am creating through the power of my imagination.

“I realize now that I was always off base when I had imagined myself into a new place and that I expected reality to live up to that which was always going to be that which was to come in terms of manifestation. I’ve been asking too much from reality and I’m no longer going to do it. Reality is never going to disappoint me again, my government will never disappoint me again, because my version of my government in my vortex is what I am now giving my attention to.

“I have been wrong to ask my government to be the new and improved version that is only in the vortex. I must go to the vortex where the new and improved version is in order to make claim to this government that I seek.”

You are following?

Abraham-Hicks Publication, Boston Workshop June 5, 2010

Assisting Earth

Guest (Dr. Wayne Dyer): I want to talk to you about collective intention. It seems to me that everything in the physical universe, in the material world, is made of the same stuff, … the same chemicals, the same minerals, the same molecules. And if we are all made of the same stuff and everything in the physical universe is made of the same stuff, then when the stuff within us gets out of balance, we seem to be creating problems for ourselves. Physical stuff that is outside of us gets out of balance. We see things like weather patterns that are just shifting, we see droughts, we see hurricanes, we see storms, we see all kinds of problems with the atmosphere. I’m curious about…

I’m not looking to attract anything more into my life. I’m looking to see if I can impact the world in such a way with my consciousness by getting myself in balance that I can impact others in such a way that we can get the whole world back in balance. Is that possible?

Abe:
Well we are appreciating your words very much. But we are wanting to say as we begin here, that if you will start with the premise that the world is already really really really in balance… In other words, look at the things that are stable and acknowledge the perfection of that. The sun is coming up every morning and the food is continuing to grow. Things that are so big that you can’t even imagine contemplating otherwise. And then from that place of aligning with the well-being, then you become an open vortex to well-being and a catalyst for the perpetuation for more things like that.

When you come forth as a powerful teacher as you are, we can feel that for a very long time the driving force within you and in so many is to assist this world in becoming a better place. But inherent in that very premise, is the little awareness that there are things about it that are not so much in a good place and then without meaning to, you activate that within yourself and then you become part of the disallowance of it and then there is a perpetuation of the same. We would like to say that while it is absolute, that weather patterns are absolutely influenced by the stream of consciousness… When you look at it in that way… So, weather patterns or whatever are influenced by the stream of consciousness, and therefore I would like to influence the stream of consciousness into a greater alignment in order to cause this effect, what almost always happens is your attention to the very thing that you think needs to come into alignment, just gets it out of whack within you.

So then it keeps coming around to the same thing. The only thing that you can do anything about is your own alignment. And if you tend to your own alignment and live it through the power of your own example, then what happens is that people in vibrational proximity hear from you. You’ve learned long ago, as have we, when you try to answer a question that hasn’t been asked, it’s sort of like pushing a noodle. (Audience laughter) In other words, it doesn’t go very far. But when you are in vibrational alignment with who you really are, then the universe lines you up with those who are ready to ask, who are asking and are ready to hear, and on it goes.

We do not see your world in a bad place. We see this contrasting experience as the catalytic experience you all knew it would be when you decided to come forth. And we see more asking simultaneously than ever before. So the summoning of source energy is greater than it has ever been before. Which means, those who are finding alignment with the energy are thriving in new and wonderful ways and those who aren’t, are not thriving in new and powerful ways, you see.

So, the best you can do for anyone is to thrive fully and be willing to explain to anyone who asks, how it is that you are thriving and what it is that you’ve discovered and then just relax and trust that all truly is well.

(snip)

Guest (Dr. Wayne Dyer): After hearing that tape that you did, I changed the message on my cell phone. It says, “Hi this is Dr. Wayne Dyer that you’ve reached and I want to feel good. If your message is designed to do anything other than that, you’ ve reached the wrong number.” (Audience laughter) And so it’s like, my effort in the last 6 months or so, has really been to feel good, despite.

(snip)

Abe: As you pay attention to the way you feel, and nothing is more important than that you feel good, so that you make sure that you’ve tended to that connection (to source) first and foremost, then there is nothing that you cannot influence for the better. And you can see seas part right before your hands in the same way you see the parking lot brawl dissipate right before you. You begin to see changes in policy, in governments and things begin to soothe. You do have that power of influence but you’ve got to be tuned in to who you are first and foremost, before you apply it.

Abraham-Hicks, Buffalo, NY 5/20/03

True Honesty in Relationships

Question: In regards to the subjects of healthy relationships, so many of the books talk about the importance of sharing some of your past history, so you understand better where the other is coming from. Can you please comment on the importance of communication in relationships?

Abe: There is a problem in believing strongly that you have to explain where you are coming from, because it never lets you go beyond where you’re coming from. So we would keep it to a minimum.

OR we would selectively sift the positive aspects of the past that we want to present.

We would be very biased in the projection to anyone in our now about who we are. We would not explain anything about what had been that wasn’t something that we want to hold in our now.

Q: Is that being honest?

Abe: No, it’s being a deliberate creator, however….

In other words … it’s actually being very honest!! <snip>

When we say be true to yourself that is the ultimate honesty!! And what we mean by being True to Yourself is holding a thought NOW that is in vibration harmony with your True Self.

Do you know that when a person has their first negative emotion, they are NOT being honest with themselves?

They have deviated from the CLARITY and PURITY and WORTHINESS and WELL BEING and PERFECTION that they are, and they’ve chosen a DISHONEST thought about who they are.

So do you want to keep spreading the lie?

Or do you want to begin to speak to people clearly who you are?

If someone says to you, “Who are you?” tell them:

“I’m wonderful, I’m clear minded, I’m good at what I do, I’m in love in life, I adore people, I’m happy with myself.

Another, please!

You didn’t come as regurgitators. You came as creators.

So when we talk about the triad of intentions that we’re all living with …
which is:

the basis of life is freedom.
You’re so free you can choose bondage.
You’re so free that you can choose to focus anywhere.
The result of life experience is growth
but the purpose of life is joy.

But we cannot in any possible way separate
the freedom from the growth … or the joy.

In other words, they all fit together so intrinsically.

And yet as creators and as thinkers, it’s more likely that you will be focused on freedom, or growth, or joy.

In other words, it’s not easy to hold a thought all together,
unless you’re in the Vortex – where you’re experiencing
simultaneously your utter knowing of your freedom and your
utter satisfaction in the joy you just experienced.

And we want to emphasize that the joy you just experienced, or
the joy you are right now experiencing –

it’s like the orgasm that we know you all like so much!

It doesn’t last that long!
It doesn’t last that long! (Audience applause !!! )

And yet you don’t say … Well, that’s it for me for this lifetime!

You’re saying …

“another, please!”

“another, please!”

“another, please!”

in other words, this orgasmic clicking into this new found place only
lasts for a moment. And then what happens?

Life cues you up for

another and another and another and another
and that experience of moving into that new place …

and recognizing who you are at the same time … that you are now allowing yourself
to move into another and another and another.

That’s the eternal passion that YOU are … that WE are.
~~ 2010 Caribbean CD.

Awareness of True Guidance

Inner Being

Image from ProjectAvalon.net

A: What do you think is the strongest question that’s burning in you? In other words, here you are, you have opened the Vortex to Infinite Intelligence. We are understanding completely what’s in your Vortex. What part of that do you want to focus upon?

G: How do I get on with this physical life and live it the way it was meant to be lived, with the joy and passion and the exhuberance that I want –
A: You have to give something up. You have to give up something that you began learning almost the day you were born. You have to give up your attention to, or your interest in, what anybody else who is humanly focused around you thinks about about where you are and what you’re doing…
… What we want you to understand is that, in the first moment that someone convinces you that your behavior must be controlled in order to effect their response to you, you’ve taken the first step away from your awareness of your true Guidance.
~ Abraham-Hicks.com, Denver, CO, 9.11.10